Reclaim self-pleasure.

A sweet & spicy balm formulated to help you re/connect with your sensual self.

Our potent aromatherapeutic balm was created for women wanting to re/connect with and heal their sensuality & sexuality. We strongly believe that we store trauma within our bodies and certain experiences, like pelvic pain, sexual trauma, growing up in a sexist society, abuse and difficult birth, can lead us to disconnect from pleasure and feel ashamed of our sexuality. Self-Love Potion No.01 is an invitation to explore your body, re/establish a nurturing relationship with yourself and awaken the sexual being you are. 


Grounding, calming, aphrodisiac.


Shea Butter (Butyrospermum parkii)* - assists capillary circulation and cellular regeneration. Moisturises dry skin. Anti-inflammatory.

Coconut Oil (Cocos nucifera)* - emollient. Lubricates and softens, making skin smooth and satin-like. Gentle, nutty smell.

Cardamom Seed Oil (Elettaria cardamomum)* - promotes integration and embodiment, calms the mind. Has been used in love potions throughout history. Warming, sweet, spicy aroma.

Vanilla Fruit Oil (Vanilla planifolia) - aphrodisiac. Antidepressant. Promotes well-being and sensuality. Known to assist with menstrual complaints and sexual difficulties. Sweet, delicate, appetite-stimulating fragrance.

Jasmine Flower Extracts (Jasminum grandiflorum* & Jasminum sambac) - aphrodisiac. Stress releasing, libido awakening. Believed to remedy low self-esteem and low self-image. Encourages embodiment. Warm, rich, floral scent. 



☛ Use this aromatherapy balm in embodiment practices and meditation to encourage grounding, inward focus and sensuality. It can be applied anywhere on your body and some of our favourite places are: wrists, temples, nape, breasts, abdomen & behind the ears .

☛ When you feel ready to explore your sexuality, apply a generous amount of the balm to your fingertips and massage into your erogenous zones to increase grounding, stimulation and arousal.

☛ Wear as perfume.

☛ It can be applied to the whole body in therapeutic massage.

☛ Use during your bleed to soothe your achey womb. Also, orgasms are proven to reduce cramping ;)

☛ Wonderful in labour to help you calm & ground and let your body do its magic. Apply to wrists & temples.

☛ When working with our balm, do only what feels good to you and your body.

☛ Find your own ways of using it and let us know!

Use with Self-Love Essence No.01. 

To learn more about the No.01 Series and explore guided rituals using this product, please press here.

Add to Cart - £38


Shea Butter (Butyrospermum parkii)*, Coconut Oil (Cocos nucifera)*, Cardamon Seed Oil (Elettaria cardamomum)*, Vanilla Fruit Oil (Vanilla planifolia), Jasmine Flower Extract (Jasminum grandiflorum)*, Jasmine Sambac Flower Extract (Jasminum sambac), d-Limonene***,  Geraniol***,  Linalool***, Citral***, Benzyl Alcohol***, Eugenol***, Benzyl Benzoate***.

* Organic ** Wildcrafted *** From essential oils



  • Jasmine is a uterine tonic – avoid in pregnancy.

  • Not to be used with latex condoms — the oils may cause condoms to break.

  • Store in a cool, dry place away from sunlight.

  • Keep out of reach of children.

  • For external application only.



“The Self-Love Potion No.01 is a pot of intimate pleasure. Velvety smooth to touch, smells divine and feels amazing.” - Clare Blake, Founder of Fertility Massage Therapy

“Two words: It works! I've always struggled to achieve orgasms on my own so this is definitely the right potion for me. It smells great (I love cardamom) and it feels great. I use it with my partner too. Great way to enhance your pleasures.” - Danielle B. 

" I love the scent of the Self-Love Potion No.1. The texture is easy to apply without it dribbling all over the place. I don't need much to get the strong scent wafting in my direction. A lovely aphrodisiac. " -Natasha Richardson, Medical Herbalist, Founder of the Forage Botanicals

“The Self-Love Potion No.01 is a gorgeous silky soft balm with beautifully sweet and warm scent invigorating my pleasure time.” - Lydia K. 

“The Self-Love Potion No.01 is amazing. The smell is divine. It leaves my lady-bits nourished and loved.” - Patricia L. 

“I had the pleasure of using the Self-Love Potion No.1 for me time, after a relaxing bath I applied the potion to my womb area with gentle massage, the texture was lovely to apply, no greasy residue, and was easily absorbed into my skin leaving it feeling like velvet! Highly recommend.” - Lynda A.